I don’t want to lose the love of my life..PLZ help..

[victoria]

[cayden]

But the only problem is that I think she doesn’t like me...or ever did...Like I said we have been friends for about a year....but I mean we never like hung out a lot. When we started dating...the 1st 2 nights I was with her we had sex almost 12 times....sometimes I wonder if that’s all she was interested in....what do you think? Share your feeling with  friends  (http://www.vois.com)

[jerome]

i think i can be the answer to your problems juss mail me ur pic an more stuff about u an we can hook up an talk here's my addy boysey_19@hotmail.com;)

[RedoftheLost]

Um WTF is up with the first two replies?

Anyways,
You are WAY too attached to her. You need to slow down. You were dating her because you love her and she's was dating you because she was interested. Now you've gotten too attached and that was way too quick for her. You need to slow down and basically well play "hard to get". Do not call her more than once a week and tell her that you'd like to remain as friends for a while. Be nice to her but control yourself, try to treat her like you would treat anyone else. Then if you can do that for a while ask her if she will date you again.

[xeric]

i can really understand whats going on with  you  because you  are  in a dangerous disease named love. in  love this kind of things happens. and if you  really want to get her  back, dont loose your hope. keep  trying. i  am sure, one day you will get her. you  need a passion,  dude.

[ryspencer]

I agree with Red. Lay off a bit, play a little hard to get, but be there for her if she asks for it.

If the first few times you dated you had sex, that may have changed her view or opinion. As good as sex is, it complicates things. I wouldn't push on her.

Detach yourself a little. Have you ever been in love? You should try and find out if you are actually in love or in "lust" . Lust is a combination of jealousy and the need for things that we can not have.

Remember she said that there are things going on in her personal life. She is not ready for something steady yet. Plus... this could mean EXCESS baggage! No one wants that!

[mercybaby]

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